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CONFIDENCE... Never run out of it

Confidence is as important for success as water is for our sustenance. It is not always possible to learn all things and then start doing them. Likewise, we cannot wait for the road to clear before we learn driving. All that it takes for us to attempt any particular feat is confidence. "Confidence is not when you know all the answers, it’s when you are prepared to take all the questions".
Most people hesitate to start off something new because of the lack of confidence. Let us accept the fact, that all winners did not have a clear cut path to their dreams. They had the courage and confidence to make a start. As they progressed towards their goal, they certainly met with many obstacles, some totally unexpected!
I think confidence and enthusiasm go hand in hand. If you’re a natural enthusiast, definitely you will be a confident individual. We need to analyze why our confidence level doesn’t remain the same throughout our lives? It could be because of some set backs or temporary defeats. Mistakes and defeats are all the part of the game; they inturn build your character. But most people, even people whom I’ve come across just don’t recover from this state. They confuse temporary defeat with failure and dont pounce back. It is said that the "strength of the timber can be measured by the winds it has faced".

You are not a person who should remain defeated always; you needn’t stay unblessed when people around you fly past. I am asking you to develop that confidence, which will always put you on the victory stand throughout life.
We are the best judge of ourselves; we know what motivates us and what turns us off. Confidence is an integral tool that you should develop immaterial of where you are, what you do and what you want to become. You should be able to find out, what exactly are the things that boost your confidence, and do the same when your spirits are low. Say, you love playing cricket, suppose you are fed up with work pressures or family issues; I promise you, after a round of play you will feel like an entirely different person.

Confidence is always a high energy state. It’s a level tough to reach, but the result you get at this energy level is awesome! Confident people tend to achieve more; they even outrun people who are miles ahead of them logically, technically and talent wise. We all love to be around a confident individual; they will be definitely around you if you transform yourselves to a highly confident person! -----------------------------------------------
Confidence is the key to become the successful person in life and to achieve what we want. Confidence has to be in everyone’s day-to-day activities. We all want to achieve what we dream to and we try very hard to get that but if we have Self Confidence, the road to success becomes shorter and easier .
We all are attracted to a person who is self confident. The reason being self-confident people inspire confidence in others: Their audience, their peers, their bosses, their customers, and their friends. Gaining the confidence of others is one of the key ways in which a self-confident person finds success. The good news is that self-confidence really can be learned and built on. And, whether you’re working on your own self-confidence or building the confidence of people around you, it’s well-worth the effort!
All other things being equal, self-confidence is often the single ingredient that distinguishes a successful person from someone less successful. We can work upon improving our self-confidence by learning from the one who is more confident than us.  ----Akanksha

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